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Sunday, February 18, 2007

Dear Annie, is nudist wife an exhibitionist?

Dear Annie and husband here confuse nudism with exhibitionism. At wikipedia it says:
"Exhibitionists who view exhibitionism as a lifestyle as opposed to a rare thrill carefully select their target audience and make the exposure brief, inconspicuous and apparently unintentional. It is a fetish, and many such practitioners see it as an art form. Many night clubs and goth bars encourage mild exhibitionism to enhance the venue's atmosphere. This contrasts with non-sexualized social nudity, in which the exposure is not connected with sexual expression, such as sunbathing or swimming at nude beaches..."

The wife here is going nude in a non-sexual situation when she is swimming nude with family and friends. My guess is she is nude at home most of the time. She obviously feels very comfortable with her herself as it appears she was raised as a nudist.

As for answering the door parially dressed for a UPS driver, my wife and myself work inthe nude, we answer the door all the time nude for UPS, delivery people, meter readers, etc. They don't care. As one meter reader said, you would be surprised at how many home nudists there are in Palm Springs.

Dear Annie and her husband are confusing exhibitionism with nudism, which happens all the time.

"Posted on Thu, Feb. 08,

Nudist wife is also an exhibitionist

Dear Annie: I am 34, and my wife is 24. We've been married for two years, and I am the happiest man alive. She is everything you could ask for in a wife and lover, except for one thing.

My wife is a nudist. We have a rather private back yard and a pool, so she just hops in the pool in the buff with never a concern that someone might see her. I had only met her family on two occasions before we wed, but when they came to visit, they all went swimming in the nude (her father, mother and brother). I was somewhat taken aback, but figured, "when in Rome."

However, a UPS driver delivered a package the other day, and my wife answered the door wearing panties and an open blouse. She wasn't wearing a bra, and she has a fabulous figure. When I said this was a little inappropriate, her answer was, "He's old enough to be my father."

Last week, she called me at work and asked if I could come home early as she wanted me to meet her brother's best friend. When I got home, they were all swimming in the nude. When my wife got out of the pool, I can tell you that her brother's friend was not looking at her like a sister.

I don't think she is promiscuous, but how can she treat her body so trivially? She has an advanced degree, a wonderful job and is very religious. Am I just an old fogey?
Bradenton, Fla.

Dear Bradenton: Not at all. Your wife may be a nudist, but she is also an exhibitionist. She enjoys going without clothes and likes others to see her that way. Insist, as a sign of respect for you, that she cover up when nonrelatives are present, especially when she answers the door, for heaven's sake. She could get into serious trouble doing that."

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